Monday, January 30, 2012

all girls are Goddesses of Love

All girls are Goddesses of love.
Deep down inside, I believe, that all girls, all of us , are born to seek, nurture and grow life. And life flourishes when seeped in the energy of love.

 Her nature, at its most secure, happy and best form is one that radiates bliss.
The architecture of a woman is to welcome others into her arms warmly, and caress with her kindness, the pain away, after being out in the harsh world of predators.  She is designed to welcome the crying child into her helpful hands, sooth the sadness, and warm them back up with her big heart.
She wants to love and she needs to be loved. She needs to be lifted when she is drained and tired from healing others. She requires the tenderness of a flower with her delicate petals and her thirst to bloom. When loved and cared for properly, a woman is light and life and a source of strength for everyone around her.
 Yes it true that some of us have layers of anger hiding that truth.
But at the bottum line, at birth, we all are Goddesses of Love.

 Through my adult eyes I see how the natural compassion and empathy innate to our nature has been derailed and altered.  These lovely girls morph into cruel women who treat one another with over reactions to small offenses.
They lie and plot unhealthy deeds to undermine each other instead of working with each other toward the goal of a healthy future society.
The humor of a happy little girl giggling at the world has been suffocated. Innocence has been stomped on by misogyny, arrogance and narcissism.
 Young women are seduced, married, emotionally abandoned, and then forced to fend for themselves and their children alone.
  Time and time again, i see the same story ~ the victim is blamed and personal responsibility is deflected.
Blaming others for their own behavior. Not recognizing that responses can be controlled and maintained. Moods must be managed.
And now women's reaction to social change in values is to behave in desperate fashion.
Their natural understanding and nurturing has become a luxury.

 I think this all began when the disconnection of our Authority figures began after WW2.  People stopped taking accountability for their behaviors, refuse to learn to communicate and walk the planet as if they had no connection to anything, the pursuit of Happiness has sadly dissolved.
 Kindness and generosity is scoffed at ~ gentleness made fun of~ power has corrupted and out proportioned rational discussion and truth.

 So many women pretend that everything is all well and good, when it is really not. Living an inauthentic life has made them deeply insecure and obscured them from  their own instincts and intuitions. Anorexia, botox, plastics are just a few ways that women are expressing coping mechanisms to the unbalanced distribution of wealth in our male dominated economy.

Each woman has their own situation. Hopefully they will learning to balance and thrive by generating love in their lives on their own terms.

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