all eyes on them

i hate watching insecurity dominate the room.

sunday

i could happily stay in bed all day ~ kissing my sleepy purring kitty's little face while watching old movies and laughing at the comedy of life.

he just wants to Show you...

mommy was texting intently while her little boy wanted to show her the toys ~ she would look up from the device to scream at him negative things about how he wants too many things and its all too expensive and how spoiled he is ~

i told her that he doesn't necessarily need to take them home, he just wants to show them to you and have you participate in his exploration of the world.

she thanked me for my opinion and then tried unsuccessfully to alter her message. but at least she tried.

he just wanted to show her what he thought was cool ~ i wish she was nice to him.

ramblings...

staying true to genuine



i am cool because i know what grip tape is,
but i'm super cool because i actually have grip tape

The Method to Breaking up. A Lesson from a Big Sister

This is in response to watching this poor little Bachelorette, who clearly has no brothers or understanding of how boys weasel out of things, have her heart just broken.

As a Big Sister, I have had to be the girl to help the broken hearted girl after my hot brothers were unwilling to accept my method of prevention of anger.
The wake of the pain is too great to ignore.
Especially when a simple understanding and resolve will help things move on nicely.
So, dearest boys, please heed me now.


There is a method that can keep the respect for the time you did share together. Honoring the relationship you did have will set a tone that heals well like a bone set correctly before it is wrapped up in a cast to heal.

So scratch your balls and listen up!

First thing is first ~

Break up BEFORE you cheat! 

 If you can manage this .... you are Golden. 

Leaving is one thing ... cheating is definately another.

Next ~  even in a mutual break up ~ the separation of the bonds will always sting a little.

This is why it is never fun.

Always approach after anger has had a chance to dissipate. A calm mood is easier.
 Prepare for a reaction and allow it. Stay calm in the face of the painful moment of disconnect.

And ~ Be kind
 let them know why you must leave ~
let them know what you gained from them.
Leave them knowing and resolved.
Leave loved.

the bachelorette bullshit

as i watch bentley lie in the moment and narrate it with such arrogance and cocky narcissism is making me sick.
how ball-less and weak are the men we have to choose from. not one is worthy of reproduction.

he braggs about lying
as if it were an accomplishment
apparently he is not use to having people believe him.
why would he expect someone to not believe his words.
how worthless have they been to him his whole life.

why he has no self respect to just own the truth and tell it gently
like a man that someone would want to be with