talking behind your back

when people are talking behind your back they are merely collaborating the observed behavior with their own perspective.
it is not some vicious affront ~ it is trying to get an understanding.
It is a diagnosis of the minds when there is 'gossip'
one should not be offended, for one is found interesting enough to discuss.
It would seem that those of us gossiped about are usually the braver ones of the bunch and branch off from our origins exploring the world.
 So to react in anger at gossip is to deny your own appeal.

love is self generated ~

love is self generated whether sparked by someone you adore or ignited by the thoughtful purr of a kitten or the awe projected by a sunset ~ you are loved because you love ~ ♥

I generate love

I am sitting alone in my apartment, combing through the 'favorite' stations when i pull up to a movie showing me driving in a car on a mountain canyon with Tom Petty blaring and bouncing off of the sunshine. 

A huge smile comes to my face as i fill up with the feeling of love love love!

 and then i realize ~i always have a man to make me smile with one play of a song. 

 With music as my tool,

I generate love